All of scripture is about Righteous relationships.
There is much confusion about the scriptures in the minds of the ishh* (*now called “woman”, “women”, “wife”, “wives”) because the scriptures are not written to the ishh, they are written by Righteous Men to Righteous Men in other generations.
An example that the scriptures are written to Men only as a training manual is Numbers 20:17
“Thou shalt not covet thy neighbour's house, thou shalt not covet thy neighbour's wife* (* now called “woman”, “women”, “wife”, “wives”), nor his manservant, nor his maidservant, nor his ox, nor his donkey, nor any thing that is thy neighbour's.
This verse was OBVIOUSLY NOT WRITTEN TO THE ISHH, because the ishh was/is to be the property of the Righteous Man. His neighbor was commanded by YHWH Elohim* (*the LORD G-d) not to covet what belonged/belongs to that Man.
Yshuah being the Firstborn of Many Brethren, paid the bride price* (*mohar), and redeemed/bought His Bride, just as Righteous Men had done since the beginning.
Jacob had worked for seven years and paid the bride price to Laban for Rachel, but Laban tricked him and concealed Leah and sneaked her into his bed, and Jacob had no idea that this had occurred. Jacob then proceeded to work another seven years for Rachel.
SPECIAL NOTE: Eventually Leah and Rachel gave Jacob their servants Bilhah and Zilpah. Jacob causes those four ishh to give birth to his 12 Sons. They were brothers born by four different mothers.
Yshuah, demonstrating that He was like His brother Jacob, who also was a Son of Elohim, had to pay for His Bride, who are the called-out chosen people of YHWH Elohim in every generation.
As the person was saying, men did pay prices, worked foe what God gave them, and awarded what was the greatest value to them.
That scripture and way is not wrong, but had purpose. The person also said about Christ dying to redeem us to God, paying the price to purchase us, the bride, by His own blood to have a purified church.
Which is exactly what Ephesians 5 shows, how the head of the woman remained the man, as Christ is the head of the man.
Christ gives instructions to the man, and the man shares all with his wife, and is taught to lay his life down for his wife too, even as Christ did for the church..
Ephesians 5:22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.
25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
Being joined to the Lord is the everlasting relationship, and being in a Godly relationship first prepares the way for that..
1 Corinthians 6:15 Know ye not that your bodies are the members of Christ? shall I then take the members of Christ, and make them the members of an harlot? God forbid.
16 What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh.
17 But he that is joined unto the Lord is one spirit.
That was a very fine answer to a question no one was asking. So was that a preliminary response to prepare us for the big one or shall we keep waiting for an answer to the question already raised?
