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God CAN Give Second Chances. I Would Like A Friend To Talk With Through These Times.Posted : 15 Dec, 2009 09:38 PMI've grown up in the Methodist church all my life and God's greatest strength (or weakness at times) is easily forgiving. This guy I was dating lied to me on a constant basis. But he was so good at lying, I always believed him. I'd always find out the next day or so when a friend would spot him out. A month after we got together, he took another girl out to dinner and to a bar, and then stayed the night at her place. I didn't find out until a lot later. Naturally, I forgave him. I always believed in the "Don't end it - MEND it" saying. I thought I could fix things. But I couldn't. Nearly every weekend, he'd tell me he was at a friend's house or working late, only to find out he was at the strip bars. Confronting him, he'd tell me "They need to be supported, too!" I soon found out I was pregnant by this guy. I was so devastated because I knew he'd never change and I didn't want my little one growing up with that. So, here I am today with a beautiful 3 month old baby girl and I'm so blessed by her. But I still have to deal with his lying and betraying. He's an alcoholic, has been in trouble many times with meth, heroin, cocaine, and other drugs. I didn't find all this out until after I became pregnant. He never told me about this stuff, and I finally went to the courthouse to find out about his background. |
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tristan07
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God CAN Give Second Chances. I Would Like A Friend To Talk With Through These Times.Posted : 16 Dec, 2009 05:11 PMBlessings to you, truly. You are only in the beginning of your life, focus on that little one you have inside and prepare to be a good single mother right now. Find people around you to help you. Don't rush into anything with a guy who is there to *rescue you* Make sense, not mistakes. |
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butterfly101
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God CAN Give Second Chances. I Would Like A Friend To Talk With Through These Times.Posted : 28 Dec, 2009 12:05 PMHi. |
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God CAN Give Second Chances. I Would Like A Friend To Talk With Through These Times.Posted : 28 Dec, 2009 02:47 PMKatie, |
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wingsofeagles88
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God CAN Give Second Chances. I Would Like A Friend To Talk With Through These Times.Posted : 2 Feb, 2010 07:01 PMYou sound alot like me..my situation was a little different, but i fell in love with a man that i thought i knew and that i wanted to spend the rest of my life with..it wasn't until about three months after the wedding i found out all of it was lie..everything..who he was..his character..his bad habits..and mostly his cheating on me. As it turns out i also found out i was pregnant about the same time..I spent the entire pregnancy with him because i really thought "we're a family we can work this out" and "I married him, i love him...if i just work harder at this i can make him see and make him want to be a good family man"..as it turns out, you can't..or at least i certainly couldn't. But now i have this adorable wonderful little boy who is turning 1 in March..and he is everything to me. And the most rewarding thing that i have done as a mother was leave that man, because since i left him and have been raising my son in a house filled with love and free from that kind of pain and tension..my son is a happy baby. He giggles all the time, he wants for nothing, he is being raised by a mother that is happy and attentive and a grandmother that spoils him rotten lol..All i can say is i know it's hard, and it hurts..And sometimes you're heart tells you that you love someone who hurts you like that..but you have to do what makes you happy..and being with that man will NEVER make you happy..being with that man will never make your child happy either..Break away from that pain and rejoice in the greatest love created (the love between a child and mother) and know that God has someone really special planned for you. It helps me to remember that the bible says "those who wait upon the Lord in strength will rise up with wings of eagles".. if you want to talk feel free to email me anytime..Hang in there girl! |
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God CAN Give Second Chances. I Would Like A Friend To Talk With Through These Times.Posted : 6 Feb, 2010 11:19 PMMost importantly from my point of view - kudos to you for not killing your daughter just because she was unplanned. You should feel proud of that fact every day for the rest of your life. |
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AFRIQUE
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God CAN Give Second Chances. I Would Like A Friend To Talk With Through These Times.Posted : 6 Apr, 2010 06:01 AMHe has given me a new lease in life and to God be the Glory. |
my54300
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God CAN Give Second Chances. I Would Like A Friend To Talk With Through These Times.Posted : 18 May, 2010 08:58 AMI'm christian an EVANGELICAL PENTECOSTAL CHURCH.I'm afrencch native speaker livng in Italy. I love JESUS-CHRISTas my eternal saviour.I believe in GOD everlast father byJESUS and dedicte wolly my life to him.I moving and applying by faith in my life according to the scriptures in holy bible in every circumstance whoever the situation that i can past through in my life. I believe to a salvation and back of JESUS soon. |
cheekyangel09
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God CAN Give Second Chances. I Would Like A Friend To Talk With Through These Times.Posted : 10 Jan, 2012 06:14 AMIt is true that God can give second chances to his people. But Satan don't have any chances. I am a born again christian, I love Jesus Christ and He is my King and Savior.Through repentance we are forgiven. |
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cheekyangel09
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God CAN Give Second Chances. I Would Like A Friend To Talk With Through These Times.Posted : 20 Jul, 2012 06:14 AMHi.. you know what if it's God's will, God will make a way to give a guy who will love you and your daughter. But don't be so rushed in things like these.. |