Yes, I've tried searching for "does not want children" in the advanced search. There's plenty, but they're all overseas. It's pretty hard to find a young Christian girl in South Australia, let alone one that also doesn't want kids.
For quite a while I've been chatting to a girl in Kenya that I met on here, she's lovely, but I've made it clear that I'm not looking for a LDR, not yet anyway.
I hope to get married one day, but I don't want to have children. I've noticed that It's really hard to find a young Christian girl who doesn't want kids.
Some 95% of young (18 - 35) people with no kids hope to have kids one day.
I've had to reject a few dates because of this dealbreaker. I understand that this is my fault for choosing to have an unpopular opinion. Has anyone else here found themselves in a similar situation? ...and does anyone have tips for finding a childfree girl?
I think this guy likes me but should I just act friendly and ignore it
Posted : 5 Mar, 2024 01:16 PM
It's pretty obvious he likes you.
If he's a Christian, and you're attracted to him, then go for it.
If you're not interested, then the best thing you can do for you (and for him) is to tell him that. Just straight up be honest about how you feel. Say that you just want to be friends. If you keep acting friendly without telling the truth, he'll probably keep thinking you might like him.
There's nice men, bad men, nice women, bad women. There's no such thing as a "better gender".
My post was more about how different people look for different things in a partner. Example: Some men prefer "loud and confident" women, some men prefer "quiet and sweet" women. Some men prefer fat, some men prefer skinny etc etc
...yet people often say "men always go for such and such".